when people are in shitty relationships but they stay in them.
when people keep toxic friends who put them down and they stay friends with them.
when people choose to stay in or be involved in drama, to only stress over the drama.
when people make stupid financial decisions and continue to do so even after the consequences of the first mistake.
when people think they have invested so much time in something stupid which makes them stay, when they are only wasting more time on something stupid.
when people seek out meaningful relationships with the wrong people because they were looking in the wrong places.
I had a conversation with a classmate today about a book called the 7 levels of power or something like that. How people put others down because they themselves lack self-acceptance, therefore they take it out on others, in many cases those who are close to them. But in the end they end up with no friends because no one wants to be friends with that kind of destructive personality.
You have free will, you have a choice, gtfo or don’t complain. Lesson of the day. In addition to the fact that I learned in psychology how badly stress fucks you up, so why purposely put yourself in situations where you’d have to stress. That’s just dumb ( :
On another note I made a few more friends today n__n might decide to try dancing?! (no none of that whorey shit LOL) I need to keep pushing my comfort zone. Shyness will get you no where in life or at least thats what all my professors keep telling me x__x