Question to the ladies out there
Tell me if this is an irrational thing to do. I think so, do you agree?
A guy messages you on facebook. Adds you as well. You guys begin to talk, and he believes you look familiar. However, it turns out he does not know you nor has he ever met you. You guys share what cities you’re from. So on so forth. He then needs to go so he asks you to text him. This is a stranger you do not know but has mutual friends with you, and you proceed to text him.
Is this not a stupid thing to do with a stranger you don’t know?
I know someone who did and I was overly frustrated with her stupidity.
Am I being too cynical or just cautious? Thoughts?
Like a text message or someone’s status. Everything was going fine until you accidentally came across something you didn’t want to read. Or found out something you were better off not knowing. It’s almost as if it was posted just to purposely hurt you. But you constantly read it over and over again to torture yourself. It sucks how one little thing can ruin your whole day.
Sometimes you get so enveloped in those emotions it takes a lot of self control to make yourself calm again because that thing is now destroying you from the inside out.
What do you expect?
Can you blame me? I just loved waking up in the morning to text messages saying good morning with the knowledge that someone out there was thinking of me. I loved falling asleep to someone’s voice on the phone keeping me company because they couldn’t be laying next to me to hold me tight. I loved when I was away from my phone for a long period of time and I come back to a barrage of text messages wondering what I was doing and where I disappeared to, I loved it. I loved it all. What do you expect? I got addicted to it. I yearned for more. I always wanted it. I got greedy. Then I started breaking hearts and now I’ve got to stop this addiction.
I’ve come to the realization…well I’ve always known it but never really made any effort to change the fact that we, this generation of kids, depend way too fucken much on technology. I depend way too much on constant texts and phone calls from him. I need to learn to be alone. You can’t love someone else, if you don’t love yourself. I know very well that there is a lot of work a head of me to make that possible. I just need to surround myself with positive influences and people who don’t bring me down. If you’re out there, I’m looking for you! Make my life a little easier and just wear a damn sign so I don’t have to risk having a bad friendship take me down before I find you.